I like destinations. I like to hear the words "you arrived." I reached the goal. I succeeded and got there safely. Check the box.
I find that it is the way I have tried to live my life.
I want to correct this bad habit, successfully. Check.
I follow this commandment of God and the way He calls us to live. Check.
I return good for the pain I felt. Check.
I pray. Check.
I arrive. I succeed. While all that I said and the many more goals we have are good goals and not wrong; when they become the end, we miss what living for Jesus and doing life His way, is all about. When the goal becomes the end, we will likely miss who Jesus is for us along the way.
Because what happens when I miss the mark? What do I do when I don't follow a command the way I should? Is that failure?
Yes, if I live with this framework then what I do or don't do is the gauge. It becomes the framework that dictates my success or failure at living the way of Jesus.
This creates a problem because then my salvation and even the continuing to follow Jesus becomes about me and my good works or not. The focus is on what I do and not what Jesus has done and the gift He offers you and I. This is not the saving grace of Jesus. This is not true sanctification.
The familiar quote of 'Life is a journey and not a destination'; connected with me a defining way one day. Life is learning and growing and not so much reaching a destination here on earth. We are striving for our final destination - heaven. But until we reach that point, life is a journey. Each day is an opportunity to learn and grow in the knowledge and ways of Jesus.
When I miss the mark and mess up, it is an opportunity to confess and learn from that experience. It's not a moment that defines me or marks me in ways that cannot be redeemed. Each day starts with - a morning - and with each new morning we have God's grace, His new morning mercies that include power, truth, and strength for the day and wisdom and forgiveness for the mistakes of yesterday.
Sanctification, becoming, learning, changing and being aware of the parts of ourselves that need adjustment, that need the saving grace and healing touch of Jesus is not a once and done deal. 2 Corinthians 3:18 tells us, "But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit.
"Are being" catches my attention. The verb tense is an ongoing process, a continuing of something.
I want to arrive. I want to learn the lesson once and for all times. In some ways this is an admirable goal. But in many ways, it's binding.
For many years I struggled with feeling like a failure because it was like 3 steps forward and then back two and shame and defeat hounded my heels and chirped its rhythm of negativity.
In the middle of all that, I am learning the truth that sanctifying me, the saving of my soul by Jesus is not a destination but a journey. It's not something that is successfully learned and an end in itself. Nor is it learned and applied for all times in ways that we never miss the mark and always get it right. It is as the threads of a screw that go around; continuing and layered in learning how to apply the words of Jesus in my everyday living. The wounds I have experienced and the ways that has impacted me, has levels of understanding them and healing their impact, in and on my heart and mind.
Becoming is a journey that is so freeing because I don't need to learn it once and for all times which means when the pain in my heart is touched and I react and have a trauma response, I can listen to what it is saying to me. I can let it lead me to Jesus for more understanding and let Him touch me with His healing touch. There is always room and space for more learning, understanding, and healing; which equals, growth.
Becoming doesn't indicate shame, but growth.
Becoming allows space for more healing instead of staying stuck in what happened.
Becoming is the wings of freedom and the wind that pushes us closer to Jesus.
Becoming is a journey and one that won't end until I take my last breath and am forever in the presence of the One who saves me today, again.













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